October 2024
We decided that our next weekend away should be somewhere along the Wild Coast – unspoiled and off the beaten track.
Before we show you what our final destination looks like, there’s a story to tell. A near disaster that led us to believe again in the goodness of humanity.
In this post there are almost no photos – for very good reasons … you will understand later.
There were two routes to our final destination:
- Travel mainly on the N2 highway to Butterworth (now known as Gcuwa) and then take a dirt road to the sea which is in a very bad condition or,
- Take the road less travelled to Kei Mouth β across the Kei River by ferry on a scenic route. This route is also shorter and the dirt road is (apparently) not that bad.
We decided to take the second option, because we like to travel on the back roads more.
One of the disadvantages of this route is that there are many animals roaming along the road and that one should preferably not drive this road in the dark. We worked out that we would be at our final destination just after 5:00pm (it was getting dark by 6:00pm), so we were safe as far as time was concerned when we left our house in East London.
We crossed the Kei River by ferry, which is always an exciting experience.


On the ferry over the Kei River
When we reached the dirt road, Berto looked up at the sky and said: “Besides not wanting to drive these unknown roads in the dark, I also wouldn’t want to do it in wet conditions.”
When we reached the last village, namely Centane, we turned on the GPS to take us the last 40km/25 miles to our final destination as there were now many roads turning left and right.

The road less travelled
The GPS lady was very confident with her instructions: “Take a left here, continue straight for 1km, then take a right, continue straight …”. I’m sure most of you have been in these situations and understand why we drove exactly as she told us.
That was until we came to a road, which could hardly be called a road. Berto immediately said: “There are no fresh tracks here, which is clear that no one has driven this road recently.” We could see the road was going to be a challenge and Berto switched the bakkie into 4×4 to get better traction.

We are now on proper 4×4 roads
We had to drive up a long and steep hill but could not drive ON the road because there were deep ditches caused by earlier heavy rain. So, we had to drive on the side and when we went around a bend, the bakkie’s front wheel caught the edge of a ditch.
Disaster:
Fortunately, Berto stopped immediately, because if the rear wheel had gone into the ditch, the bakkie would have landed on its diff (or worse, roll onto its side) and then there was no way we were going to get out of there.
We got out of the bakkie and couldn’t believe our eyes! Between the front and rear wheel on the driver’s side was a ditch about a meter deep!
I looked at Berto with wide eyes and asked, “What now?”
And his nonchalant answer to me: “Well, I think we’re going to have to build a wall with rocks between the two wheels so I can reverse”.
I thought I was going to faint! “And how many rocks do you think it would take to do that?”
“A hell of a lot, so let’s get started, because in an hour and a half it will be dark” was his reply.
When we threw the first few rocks into the ditch, I suddenly realised just how many rocks we were going to need to get out of this predicament. We looked at each other and probably had the same thought: We’re going to have to carry rocks for hours to fill that ditch.
Kidnappings and assaults on tourists:
However, before I continue, I just want to mention that the Eastern Cape Province (and close to where we were now stranded) received a lot of negative publicity lately. Kidnappings and assaults on tourists have been in the news almost every week for the past month. It was thoughts like this that left us a little anxious, especially after we saw that we were basically surrounded by small villages and some of the locals were watching us from a distance.
As I walked up the road in search of large rocks, a young man walked slowly towards me. He asked me what we were doing and I tried to explain our situation. I could see he didn’t quite understand and he walked to Berto who was at the bakkie to see what was going on.
I heard him ask Berto in disbelief: “Do you want to cover this whole ditch with rocks?” Berto nodded his head and the young man walked away and began to gather rocks and carry them to the bakkie.
Berto and I looked at each other and I had to wipe a quick tear from my eye because of this young man who is willing to help us without us even asking him.
A clever young man, a wheelbarrow and his sister:
Although it was going faster now, I realised that we were probably going to have to carry rocks to fill that ditch until long after dark. However, the young man was smarter than we thought because he walked to one of the houses and came back with a wheelbarrow (and a young girl who I later found out is his sister).
The young girl gathered rocks and then placed them on a pile, while the young man loaded them onto the wheelbarrow. He then pushed the wheelbarrow full of rocks to the bakkie where Berto built the wall.
A broken wheelbarrow:
With the third wheelbarrow full of rocks, the wheelbarrow’s front wheel broke – the load was probably too heavy. The young man called me and the young girl and said he would pick up the front and we each had to pick up a handle – thus we carried the wheelbarrow full of rocks down the road to the bakkie. (I actually wanted to laugh half hysterically at us carrying a wheelbarrow – imagine!)
It was also with this third wheelbarrow full of rocks that Berto said he thought we now had enough rocks and that the wall was hopefully wide and high enough for the bakkie’s front wheel to move over.
The moment of truth:
An hour after we got stuck, Berto was behind the steering wheel again, with the young man at the back of the bakkie and me in front to guide Berto. I said a quick prayer and watched with bated breath as Berto slowly drove over the pile of rocks without any problems.
The young girl jumped up in the air and clapped her hands while the young man just shook his head and said to Berto: “I didn’t think it was going to work.”
Thank you:
The young people and I walked ahead to the top of the hill and showed Berto where to drive to avoid the ditches. When Berto got to the top, he stopped. I got a few hundred rand notes from my purse and gave it to them – enough to buy a new wheelbarrow and extra. We also gave them chocolates (I smiled when I saw the young girl was almost happier about this than the money).
Apology:
While we shook the hands of our two helpers, an old man approached us and said: “Sorry, sorry, sorry. I’m so sorry our roads look like this and you had all this trouble!” He asked where we were going. After we told him, he showed us how to get there and promised that the road from here is better.
We quickly said our goodbyes when we realised that we still had to drive for half an hour and that it would also be dark in half an hour.
Arrival and grateful:
Just before dark we reached our destination. We sat in silence for a moment as we pulled up in front of our accommodation. Today’s bad situation made us believe again in the goodness of people.
And was our destination worth the bad road conditions? Well, looking at the view from our front door, we can’t help but think it was.

View from our front door
Next week weβll tell you more about our accommodation – with angel wings painted on the wall mind you.
Click here to read about our weekend at Mazeppa Bay.
Oh my goodness, how incredible! How blessed you both are to be okay and to have your faith in people restored!!!
What a lovely view!
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Thank you Sheila. Yes, we were truly blessed to get to our destination without any damage to our vehicle (or any injuries). And thumbs up to the wonderful people out there! It’s an incredibly beautiful place where we stayed – the sunrise the next morning was one of the most beautiful I’ve ever seen … but more on that next week.
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Wat Γ± ondervinding, Corna. My maag het sommer op n punt saamgetrek terwyl ek gelees het. Engele op jul pad, dis wat ek dink.
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Kan jy jou indink hoe my maag gevoel het toe ek uitklim en sien in watter slegte situasie ons onsself bevind het? Beslis Engele – die Here het Sy hand oor ons gehou (soos ons in gebed gevra het voor ons van die huis af vertrek het).
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What a heartwarming story. People are generally good and it’s too bad that a few bad ones ruin the reputation of an entire region. Glad you made it safe and could enjoy that view. Maggie
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You’ve now spoken a great truth, Maggie β the fact that people are inherently good. Of course, there are always a few with bad intentions, but the good people are far more in this world. That’s something we’ll always remember from this weekend.
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Now thatβs what I call an adventure! A great story and I bet youβll be telling it for years π. You know, one thing weβve learned on our travels is that thereβs far more good people than bad on this Earth!
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Ha, one has to be careful if you wish for adventures … that almost backfired on us π! Yes, I’m sure you’ve also seen (and experienced) a lot on your travels that not everyone wants to harm you. Something I need to always keep in mind …
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Gosh that was scary. So glad you escaped injury and harm. I hope you found a better route back.
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Yes, it may have been a little more adventure than what we had hoped for. We realised afterwards we were quite lucky that there was no damage to our bakkie and also that we had no injuries. I think “better route back” might be a little overrated … it was raining and a very long 60km back to the N2. I’ll write more about that in our next posts.
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One reason why we never got to the Wild Coast.
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That’s one of those adventures that seem scary at the time but make a good story afterwards, especially when you can talk about the wonderful help you received from that young man and his sister. As others have said, proof that there are plenty of good people in the world, they just sadly don’t get the publicity that the far fewer bad ones get. I’m so glad it turned out OK for you both and that you felt the destination was worth it!
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Thinking in hindsight what could have happened, we are only grateful that everything ended well. I think the locals of these villages are tired of being seen as bad people and I hope our story will show a different side of them and that they are actually helpful and friendly towards people/tourists who drive through their villages.
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What kind people. I never cease to be amazed at the kindness of people from whom you never expect to receive.
You know what this was don’t you? Karma from helping that person with their stuck car in Santiago.
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Haha Carl, that’s so funny π! It took quite a few years to be compensated for that moment in Santiago. Berto and I really enjoyed this comment of yours. Know what? I think I really first became aware of the kindness of people on that Camino in 2017.
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These are the experiences we remember over a life time. The good people who came to help, unbidden. And the older man who apologized for the condition of the road, A heart-warming story and I am very glad it worked out well! I look forward to what comes next!
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You’re right Carolyn, we’re going to remember this weekend for completely different reasons than any of our other weekend getaways. I wish we had more time to talk to the old man, but with the sun setting fast, unfortunately we couldn’t … he was ready to share many stories. You’re definitely going to love our next post β a cat (and dog) makes their appearance.
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Oh my, what an incredible and beautiful story, Corna. Talk about having faith in humanity; you experienced it firsthand. Iβm also glad to hear you made it safely to your destination!
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While I hope we never end up in a situation like this again, I’m glad we were able to share this story of caring people. And you’re right, we don’t dare to stop believing in the goodness of humanity (even if the world wants to prove us wrong every now and then). So, it was one thing to get to our destination, but getting back home again was a different challenge … but more on that later.
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I am sorry that you had a disaster but delighted at how it all turned out well with an awesome story to share.
What a wonderful villager you met, and most people are just like him and his lovely sister. It was natural for them to give help where it was needed and your generosity to them was probably totally unexpected.
We need to hear more stories like this in South Africa. That’s why we’re staying!
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It was definitely a bad situation to be in β and usually we are very careful when driving on such challenging roads, but I’m glad everything worked out well and that we were able to share this story. Yes, we know that most people in the rural areas are exactly like this young man, his sister and the old man β they don’t want to harm tourists driving through their small villages. And I think in turn, we should always be kind and show respect to them. You are right … that’s why we’re staying too!
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Oh my goodness I would have been hysterical, it is so amazing that those people came to help you and I’m so happy to hear of stories like that rather than the horrors in the news so regularly. That girl earned the chocolate π
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I was a little apprehensive when we started picking up the rocks, but those two young people totally surprised us. I wish I could have given that young girl more chocolates (but we only packed two bars). Berto and I have decided that from now on we will make up packages of sweets to take with us when we go away on weekends to hand out to the children next to the road (not that I have any intentions to drive that specific road again). You will understand when I say that a glass of wine has never tasted as good as that evening!!
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What an adventure! Definitely a story to restore your faith in human nature!
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We love our weekend adventures, but I have to admit that this one may have been a little more adventurous than what we would have liked. But the end result was great and, as you said, it certainly restored our faith in humanity.
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What lovely people, Corna! I was holding my breath through half of the telling. I could feel the relief on your arrival.
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That young boy and girl is one of the best examples of how our youth should aspire to be. Yes, I can’t tell you how relieved I really was when we stopped in front of our cottage/studio for the weekend. Little did I know what the road conditions would be like on the way back home … but that’s a story for a next post.
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That must have been so scary! So much work but thanks to Bertoβs wise thinking and the good hearts of strangers you are OK. I am thrilled everything worked out for you two!
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It definitely wasn’t a good situation to be in, but luckily I married a guy who gets super calm while it feels like I can run into the mountains! Our young helpers were probably the highlight of this weekend … and the stunning sunrise that I’m going to share in next week’s post.
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Iβm looking forward to it!
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Well that could have ended A LOT worse! Oh my gosh! How stressful! Smart thinking of Berto to fill the ditch with rocks. And good thing you had some helpers otherwise who knows what time you would have gotten to your destination.
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You’re right Linda, when we think about what could have happened, we’re very happy how this day ended! I didn’t see any solution when our bakkie was standing over that ditch … luckily, Berto has the ability to always make a plan. As for our two helpers … they were definitely worth their weight in gold.
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What an experience. It is great to hear that there are still people willing to help. Is your car ok? Hope you still managed to enjoy your weekend away.
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At the end of the weekend, our vehicle was full of mud after we had to drive back home on the dirt road in rainy weather, but there wasn’t even a scrape on it after this experience. I think we can consider ourselves very lucky. Oh yes, we had a lovely weekend – I’ll tell more about that in our next post.
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You were lucky indeed or your car is very robust.
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Haha, well it is a 4×4 bakkie (pickup truck) … so, I guess it’s made for these type of roads π! But I won’t deny that we may have been very lucky too.
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Oh my goodness, that’s SO stressful. I would have been panicked. Thank goodness for the kindness of strangers. I always like to believe that most people are good, but sometimes the bad ones make that hard. I’m glad that this story had a positive outcome. And that sure is a scenic view! I’m glad you made it there before dark.
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It was quite stressful – in that moment, you don’t think much, but when it’s all over (and you sit quietly next to the fire and all the nerves have subsided), then you suddenly realise what could have gone wrong. Yes, those two helpers were worth their weight in gold and it’s thanks to them that we were able to get to our lovely destination before dark.
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What a stressful situation, I’m glad everything ended well for you guys (and the car). Such lovely people came to your rescue, your beautiful tale restores my deeply shaken faith in humanity. What a lovely view and I’m sure another entertaining travel account to follow.
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Yes, I think we were very lucky to have been able to get out of this situation unscathed! One should hear more stories like this about the goodness of people, right? I can promise you this: It was an adventurous weekend – from start to finish!
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